tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819123857586103666.post8627442738615839095..comments2016-09-27T19:14:45.197-04:00Comments on Karmic Equation 101: Amendment to post #195 in EMK blogKarmic Equationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04255572582230767184noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819123857586103666.post-88634635351490396972016-09-27T19:14:45.197-04:002016-09-27T19:14:45.197-04:00Hi Tom, LOL. As you've probably figured out, I...Hi Tom, LOL. As you've probably figured out, I don't blog that often and didn't even see this post until 3 YEARS LATER. OMG! I'm so sorry it took so long. Anyway if you want to chat ever email me at the blog name all one word and add gmail dot com to the end. Talk soon, I hope!Karmic Equationhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04255572582230767184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819123857586103666.post-20526447310292213692013-11-25T19:44:31.832-05:002013-11-25T19:44:31.832-05:00Great post Karmic.
“I was a late bloomer, didn’t ...Great post Karmic.<br /><br />“I was a late bloomer, didn’t have my first “real” kiss until I was 18; no dates (and virginal) until 19, which is ancient by today’s standards”<br /><br />Ha, would you believe that I followed almost exactly the same path! I was 18 for my proper first kiss too, and lost my virginity at 19 – I was desperate at that stage (and wonder if it lead to over-compensating for this desperation later in life – perpetually trying to assuage that anxiety, hmm). <br /><br />Although I suspect that the official statistics on age of loss of virginity are exaggerated a bit due to teenage angst - I’ve just known so many people who were well into their 20s before losing theirs, but only have the guts to admit years after the fact.<br /><br />“I was thinking is this the guy, will I someday have sex with this one, how will it feel, is tonight the night, etc”.<br /><br />I was like, please God someone, anyone, have sex with me.<br /><br />“Basically because I was so obsessed with my virginity and when I would lose it that I did not pay attention to my date as a person”<br /><br />Yep I think we all experience that obsession - until it happens it’s the biggest worry in the world.<br />Tom10noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819123857586103666.post-26203332055154349862013-02-27T17:26:50.431-05:002013-02-27T17:26:50.431-05:00Well, don't be depressed about your virginity....Well, don't be depressed about your virginity. I wasn't depressed. I was annoyed. If I had a choice, I would have to preferred to have lost my virginity to a man I was deeply in love with. That wasn't in the cards as the guy I was deeply in love with had a gf (of 7 years to be exact, he was about 3 years older than me). So, in my not-quite-mature mind, I figured if I couldn't lose it to him, I might as well just lose it to the next good looking guy I was attracted to. And I did. May I ask why you're still a virgin? Are you religious? Did you lack opportunity? Have you just not been attracted to anyone enough? Are you afraid? You don't have to tell me why, but perhaps you should answer these questions to yourself to gain some clarity.Karmic Equationhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04255572582230767184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819123857586103666.post-26008456660802094732013-01-07T19:11:09.318-05:002013-01-07T19:11:09.318-05:00Oh my, i am going exactly through that stage of yo...Oh my, i am going exactly through that stage of yours as we speak. I am so hung up on this virginity thing :( it makes me depressed to the point that i started to avoid going out and talking to boys. Ugh... I'm 22 and feel that i will end up a crazy cat lady, who never had a real boyfriend or even sex. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com